What If I Don’t Feel Peace?


Sometimes we make our faith in Jesus way too mystical.

For example, how often have you said or heard the phrase, “I’ve got a peace about [insert decision/circumstance].”? If I haven’t said those exact words, I’ve at least thought them in one form or another. And we speak about this peace like it has some form of divine authority.

I know I’m making the right decision, because I have peace.

But what exactly do we mean when we say, “I’ve got a peace about…”? I think we mean that we feel peace about a particular decision or circumstance, which makes us confident that God has our back. We feel comfortable accepting a particular job, or entering a relationship, or purchasing a house because we have peace.

But is a sense of peace a sign that we’ve made the right decision? The answer is…maybe.

Isaiah 26:3 says, ?You keep him in perfect peace whose mind is stayed on you, because he trusts in you.”

Notice where the peace comes from. It comes from fixing our minds on God and placing our trust in God.

Philippians 4:6-7 says, ?…do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.?

The peace of God which surpasses all understanding comes from letting our requests be made known to God. The peace isn’t a divine guarantee that we’ve done the right thing. Rather, it’s the result of trusting in the God who cares for us.

Sometimes we’ll make the right, God-honoring decision and not feel a drop of peace. The reason we don’t feel peace is not because we’re out of the will of God, but because we aren’t fixing our minds on God. If we don’t feel peace we shouldn’t automatically assume that we’re making a wrong decision. We should first see if we’re trusting in God and fixing our fearful minds on Him.

And on the flip side, sometimes we’ll make a decision that isn’t God-honoring and yet still feel peace. If I make a significant decision without getting any counsel from others, it’s quite possible that I could feel peace when I shouldn’t be.

What do you think? What role should “peace” play in our decision making?

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