The Secret To Loving Jesus Much


The more we realize how much Jesus has forgiven us, the more we will love him.

In Luke 7 a woman of ill repute shows up at a meal Jesus is attending in a Pharisee?s home. She breaks open a flask of expensive ointment, then, weeping over Jesus? feet, wipes them with her hair and anoints them with the oil. The Pharisee, named Simon, most likely disgusted that Jesus would let this unclean woman touch him, thinks if Jesus were a prophet he?d know the kind of woman this is and have nothing to do with her. Jesus tells him:

?A certain moneylender had two debtors. One owed five hundred denarii, and the other fifty. When they could not pay, he cancelled the debt of both. Now which of them will love him more?? Simon answered, ?The one, I suppose, for whom he cancelled the larger debt.? And he said to him, ?You have judged rightly.? (41-43)

Then after mentioning Simon?s lack of courtesies – he didn?t wash Jesus? feet, welcome?him with a kiss or anoint his head with oil – he pointed out how the woman washed his feet with her tears, kissed his feet and anointed them with oil. Then he delivers the punch line:

“Therefore I tell you, her sins, which are many, are forgiven?for she loved much. But he who is forgiven little, loves little.??(47)

Before he saved me, Jesus let me sink into a self-made miry pit of sin, selfishness, and misery. I couldn?t get out and couldn?t stop sinning. God is sovereign. ?He could have kept me from sinning. ?But?he allows us to plunge deeply into sin. ?One of the reasons is?so that when he does?rescue?us, we?re far more amazed and grateful than if we’d never?sinned.

The same thing happens even after God saves us. He could keep us from ever sinning again. He could deliver us instantaneously from all pride and anger and self-centeredness. But he allows us to fall and struggle at times so we?ll have a fresh appreciation of his grace, forgiveness and love. And as a result we will love him all the more.*

John Newton said:

?…when, after a long experience of their own deceitful hearts, after repeated proofs of their weakness, willfulness, ingratitude, and insensibility ? they find that none of these things can separate them from the love of God in Christ; Jesus becomes more and more precious to their souls. They love much, because much has been forgiven them!?

Have you blown it repeatedly? Messed up so many times you can?t recall? If you haven?t turned to Jesus yet, do so today! He paid for every one of your sins on the cross and freely forgives all who call upon him in faith to save them. He’ll?cleanse you of your every sin, and in turn you’ll?love him much.

Maybe you?ve believed for years, yet?you?re discouraged in your struggle?with sin. Remember, Jesus paid for all your?sins long before he saved you. Ask him for forgiveness and he?ll forgive you and cleanse you of all unrighteousness. Not because you deserve it, but because he loves you. And you too will love much because you?ve been forgiven much.

I don?t advocate continual, morose, Eeyore-like dwelling upon our sins. But I DO advocate contemplating how much Jesus has forgiven us, because the more we realize the height and width and?breadth and depth?of Jesus’ forgiveness, the more we will love him.

The secret to loving God much: contemplate the immeasurable debt Jesus paid for you and how vast is his mercy and grace to you.


*The reality?of God in his sovereignty allowing us to fail to reveal the depth of our sin, our weakness and need and the greatness of Christ’s mercy and love is explained well by?Barbara Duguid in her book “Extravagant Grace: God?s Glory Displayed in our Weakness”

I’m a pastor at Saving Grace Church in Indiana, PA. I’m married to Kristi, have 5 kids, and a growing number of grandkids. I enjoy songwriting, oil painting and coffee, not necessarily in that order.